Life’s Balance (AlwaysMeKelly)

Life’s balance is all about staying out of the weeds. 

And those weeds can creep up on you fast and furious before you know it you are made to choose letting go or holding on.

The weeds can be almost anywhere, anything or from anyone.

Goodwill and cheer that has absolutely turned into interdependence and pure disrespectful vampires that just suck the life away at times. 

Relationships that run into Vampires can be draining emotionally or physically. 

There does not have to be someone planning to suck the life out of you. 

Although that sometimes it is an agenda of people in this world. 

Most times those vampires just come to life from lack of balance in any relationship.   

Women especially make it easy to become the victims of modern-day vampires.  But women can be just as selfish in a relationship when it comes to using up men.    

Speaking from a women's perspective.  We want to feel that deep passion and love.

Never paying attention or even looking for any signs the balance is off.

Or worse yet think it will change and work out, once we start feeling the pains of one sided relationships and all that goes with it. 

Yet, in the end becoming addicted unable to freely let go because what will others think?

 What will we do if we end up alone, like we need someone to be with us to make us whole.   

Or even have that addiction to the sex or rush of craziness that goes with it.

Should I stay, or should I go?

If we finally open our eyes our heads and stop thinking with our hearts and loins.    

 We finally see how God intended us to be and our worth in His eyes and not that of chasing demons never to be filled up.

I am no expert but I use to be one of those women wanting to be loved so much.  I looked past allot thinking it would change. 

I know what it’s like to wake in the morning to someone else with my partner in the spare bedroom.   I know what it is like for my ex fiancée to get drunk at dinner and grab a waitress by the crotch and him say she wanted it. 

I can assure you not everyone in this world are that disgusting and bold. 

But open bad behavior or hidden behind the curtains it is all the same.

At some point before you ever get in any situation. 

We, Humanity have to decide what we will be holding onto or letting go of.  

 What is most important or how much are you willing to tolerate.
Cause the fact is all relationships take effort 24/7.  And if you are in that intimate forever one.    What risk will you take or what cost will you put out to make it work?

How long if it is one-sided will you allow the vampires suck you dry.

When  things are imbalanced, are you digging in to find out what is draining you?

If it is a relationship, is it really your partner, or is it you?   Are you too busy in the worldly weeds of life being consumed?   

Do you even take time to ask what or why?

Be it people, or things we have a choice.

We have a choice to be a light when everything is dark.  

We always have a choice to reflect love and respect for yourself and others. 

So imbalance, unbalance, rebalance!

When it comes to things, like being too busy trying to numb or put Band-Aids on what we think we need.    Filling up on drugs and things of this world.

Everyone of us have a choice to stop no matter what it is; the drugs, the stepping out, the making excuses.   

What about just rushing into those relationships and we know we are not evenly yoked.

What are your beliefs.   Oh I can tell you having that good looking eye candy that keeps you alive and on your toes that is the hell raiser while you get up and go serve and go to church each week.    That is what it means to be unevenly yoked.

You believe in working the best you can in purity and truth.  And they are out just doing whatever, whoever and whenever.

Worse yet they see nothing wrong for not respecting you or your health by their bad behavior.   Or perhaps it is not the partner; perhaps it is you yourself?


In any case we all get to choose!   

One of the many blessings that freedom of will and choices by a God that created the universe and sent His only son to show us and lead us in life.

The choice is ours to believe and hold on no matter what.  
Or let go and fall a statistic to the world of so many without life or becoming a vampire yourself.

Letting go or holding on finding that balance.  We all have to work at it daily.
On ourselves on our relationships.

Know who you are in Christ.  Know just because you say you know him does not mean anything if you are not going to Jesus daily to lead you. 

My thoughts but I also believe Attitudes are contagious. 

So, my question is what are you holding onto that you should be letting go?

  What are you letting go and why, when we should really making effort to hold for dear life? 

Is your attitude in the here and now worth catching?

Balance impacts the world we touch or are touched by.

Are you grounded in Christ to not lose yours and spiral into the abyss.

If you are already there in that imbalance of the season you are in.  Prayers that you will meet Jesus right where you are.  

 Prayers you will regain your footing for what is pure what is love and what    feeds  you and does not feed off you until nothing is left.

Life is a balancing game.  

All I know is no matter how many times I fall I will brush off and get back up until the good Lord takes me home.

Doing my best daily to stay out of the weeds and avoid losing myself to that true life, while trying not to be caught up in the one-sided world of vampires; or the layers the world seems to have that makes it difficult to choose when it is okay to step out and believe and hold on with all I got; or just let it go and wait for life to pass by.